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The passing of a loved one is a heartbreaking event, filled with grief and sorrow. But the aftermath can become even more painful if disagreements over their personal belongings tear your family apart. These disputes, especially when centered around meaningful objects, can leave lasting wounds that may never fully heal. But it doesn't have to be this way. By understanding the emotional weight of possessions, the power of perception, and taking proactive steps, you can prevent such heartache and foster a more harmonious grieving process for your family. In this article, we'll explore practical strategies to ensure your final wishes are honored and your loved ones stay united, even in the midst of loss. Perception Is the Basis for Conflict  Your personal belongings are so much more than just material objects. They are tangible reminders of your life, personality, and connection to the people you hold dear. When you're gone, these items can provide immense comfort and solace for your grieving family members. However, the emotional ties to your possessions can also set the stage for conflict.  The basis for conflict over your belongings is usually rooted in perception, meaning your family members have very different ideas about the value and significance of your possessions. What one person deems a priceless keepsake, another might dismiss as mere clutter. These differences in perspective can create tension, resentment, and even damage relationships that have lasted a lifetime. Adding to the complexity is that certain items are inextricably linked to specific memories and experiences. That piece of jewelry may remind one of your children of the love and care you showered upon them. However, to others, it may represent an inheritance they feel entitled to. The emotional attachments to your personal property often run deeper than anyone realizes, reflecting unresolved feelings of love, guilt, or regret. Your family members' perceptions of your belongings are also profoundly shaped by their own experiences, values, and cultural backgrounds. These differences in worldview can make it incredibly challenging for them to reach a consensus when it comes time to divide their inheritance. For instance, in some cultures, family heirlooms are passed down through generations with reverence and care. These objects are seen as symbols of shared history and identity. However, in other traditions, material possessions hold far less significance, with the focus placed squarely on intangible connections. When relatives from diverse backgrounds attempt to navigate the division of your estate, these clashing perspectives can lead to misunderstandings and conflict. Perception also influences how your loved ones view the concept of fairness. One child may feel entitled to certain items due to their role as a primary caregiver or because they lived closer to you. Another may believe everything should be distributed equally, regardless of individual circumstances. These divergent notions of justice can further fuel disputes, especially if you don't leave behind clear instructions. The Value of Open Communication and Thoughtful Planning To minimize the risk of family feuds over your personal property, one of the most effective things you can do is have open and honest conversations about expectations and preferences long before you're gone. Here are some strategies to consider: Start the Conversation Early. While it may feel awkward to discuss such sensitive topics, it's far better to address them proactively. This allows for a more thoughtful and deliberate discussion of everyone's wishes. Ideally, these conversations should occur when all parties are calm and emotionally prepared rather than in the midst of grief. Record Yourself. Don’t underestimate the value of getting on video. Recording yourself explaining your wishes and why can be very powerful, as well as provide clarity and decrease conflict for your loved ones. When you create your estate plan with my firm, we include a Life & Legacy Interview with every plan so that your decisions and the reasons for them are clear to your family members. When there’s no ambiguity, the possibility of conflict lessens. Make an Inventory.  Make a comprehensive list of all your personal belongings, including their sentimental value and any specific requests or wishes you have associated with them. This inventory can be a crucial reference point for your family members after you’re gone. If possible, involve your loved ones in this process so that they understand your wishes and can ensure your voice is heard. Create a Life and Legacy Plan. A Life and Legacy Plan can minimize disputes by clearly outlining your wishes regarding distributing your personal property. In addition to the Life & Legacy Interview, every plan includes a document called a “personal property memorandum,” which provides additional clarity, specifying which items should go to which beneficiaries. We even help you keep your plan updated over time to reflect changing circumstances or preferences and prevent family conflict. Focus on Your Family’s Needs. Ultimately, the goal of your planning should be to honor your memory and support the well-being of your loved ones. Prioritize the needs of those who are grieving and try to find solutions that minimize conflict and pain. Sometimes, creating a process where each family member can express their attachment to specific items and why they matter can help others understand their emotional value rather than just their monetary worth. Helping Your Family Sell Your Belongings with Care and Intention Sometimes, your loved ones may need to sell your personal property, which may be necessary to settle your estate, pay debts, or ensure that your items are put to good use. Whether the items sold hold sentimental value or not, this can be another task ripe with conflict. Further, many family members don’t know what the process entails. But you can help make it easier for them by doing a lot of legwork now. You can specify in your Life & Legacy Plan how you want your items to be sold and outline the process for your loved ones. Here are the steps your family will need to take: Assess the True Value of Your Items. Start by evaluating the worth of the items to be sold. This may involve hiring an appraiser, especially for valuable items such as antiques, artwork, or jewelry. An appraiser can provide an objective assessment of an item's value, which can help prevent disputes over perceived worth and ensure a fair sale. Choose the Right Selling Method.  Depending on the type and value of your belongings, your loved ones will need to choose a selling method. For everyday household items, a yard sale or estate sale might be appropriate. For more valuable items, an auction house, consignment shop, or online marketplace may be the way to go. Your family should be mindful of any fees or commissions associated with these approaches, too.  Enlist the Help of an Estate Sale Company.  If your estate contains a large number of items or your family is overwhelmed by the process, hiring a professional estate sales company can be a game-changer. These companies handle everything from pricing items to advertising the sale, managing the event, and disposing of any unsold items. They typically charge a percentage of the sales, but their expertise can make the process smoother and less stressful. Understand the Legal Requirements. Depending on your jurisdiction, there may be specific legal requirements for selling estate property. For example, an executor may need court approval to sell certain assets or follow particular procedures for notifying beneficiaries. When you create your Life & Legacy Plan with us, we will be there for your family when you no longer can be, and we can advise them on all the necessary legal requirements.  Plan for the Proceeds. Decide in advance how the proceeds from the sale will be used and document your wishes in your Life & Legacy Plan. We can help you specify whether they will be distributed among your heirs, used to pay off estate debts, or donated to charity. This precise planning that’s part of our Life & Legacy Planning process helps avoid disputes and ensures that the funds are used in a way that honors your wishes. Leave a Legacy of Harmony, Not Conflict Family disputes over your personal belongings can add immense pain to an already difficult time. But by understanding the emotional significance of your possessions, the role of perception, and taking proactive steps by creating a Life & Legacy Plan, you can minimize conflicts and preserve familial relationships. Your loved ones deserve to grieve with dignity and respect, not embroiled in bitter disputes. Take the time now to put the proper measures in place, and you can rest assured that your final wishes will be honored and your family will stay out of court and conflict after you're gone. This is the lasting legacy you can leave behind - not just the material objects you've accumulated over a lifetime, but the gift of harmony, understanding, and compassion for those you hold most dear.  How We Help You Prevent Family Feuds Over Personal Belongings Family disputes over personal property can cause significant pain and tension at a time when loved ones should come together. As your attorney, we help you create a Life & Legacy Plan that ensures your belongings are distributed according to your wishes, without conflict or confusion. With careful thought, clear communication, and the right tools, your Life & Legacy Plan will keep your family united, even in the midst of grief. And you’ll gain the peace of mind knowing that your wishes will be honored and your loved ones will be supported long after you’re gone. Click here to schedule a complimentary 15-minute consultation to learn more.

When Matthew Perry, the beloved star of Friends , passed away last year, the world mourned the loss of a comedic icon. However, as details of his estate began to emerge, a curious puzzle presented itself: despite his reported net worth of $120 million, his bank account held (only) $1.5 million. Admittedly, this seems like a whopping sum to most of us, but for a man who earned millions of dollars for just one episode of the show, this amount appears…off somehow. Shouldn’t he have had much more money than that? The answer lies in the details of estate planning and using trusts as part of your plan. In this article, we’ll look at Perry’s estate plan and pull out some valuable lessons. These lessons pertain to all of us, not just the rich and famous. To find out how trusts can benefit you, read on. What is a Trust? A trust is simply a legal arrangement where a person (sometimes called a “settlor”) transfers assets to someone ( a “trustee”) who manages those assets for the benefit of someone else (the “beneficiaries”). Many types of trusts can be used for many different purposes, including estate planning, asset protection, and providing for loved ones. The trustees appointed to manage a trust play a crucial role in fulfilling the settlor's wishes. Choosing the right trustees is essential for the effective management of a trust. Trustees should be trustworthy, financially responsible, and knowledgeable about estate planning. They should also be willing to devote the time and effort required to manage the trust's assets.  In Perry's case, it appears he had established a trust during his lifetime. This trust, which seems to be named the Alvy Singer Living Trust - Woody Allen's character in Annie Hall - presumably holds a significant portion of his wealth. In Perry's case, the trustees were likely responsible for managing his investments, paying bills, and distributing money to the beneficiaries.  Why would Perry have chosen to establish a trust? There are many benefits, which I’ll break down in greater detail now. The Power and Benefits of Trusts There are many advantages to using a trust for estate planning. Here are some of the most common. Protection from creditors and lawsuits.  If a beneficiary faced financial difficulties, their creditors would generally not have access to assets held in a trust.  Ongoing support during life, incapacity, and after death.  Trusts can provide for loved ones in a more flexible way than a will. A will is a legal document that outlines how your assets will be distributed after your death. However, a trust can be structured to provide support during your life and for your beneficiaries over time, ensuring that their needs are met throughout their lives. If you have a will, usually your assets will be transferred to your beneficiaries all at once - even if they are young or financially irresponsible.  Minimization of estate taxes. Depending on the size of an estate, there may be significant federal and state estate taxes. By using a trust, it can be possible to reduce or eliminate these taxes. Court avoidance.  There’s a court process called probate that takes place after someone dies, and it can be expensive, lengthy, and conflict-laden. If you have a will or no estate plan, court is mandatory. If you have a trust, however, the court process may be avoided. This results in less expense, less time, and a decreased probability of conflict. It’s also a public proceeding, and court filings contain personal and financial information you may not want others to see.  Conflict avoidance. The court process is set up to give all heirs and creditors a claim to your assets. They are invited to file a claim, and they get to see information about your assets.  Greater control over what happens to your assets and your family. When you have to go to court, it means that someone other than you - a judge, who’s a complete stranger to you and your family - will make all final decisions about your money, property, and family. But with a trust, you get to make those decisions and exercise control over the outcomes. Preserving assets when there’s a substance abuse issue.  It’s no secret that Perry struggled with substance abuse for much of his life, and it’s possible that because of that, he was advised to create a trust to hold his assets. This was a wise decision. Substance abuse can have a significant impact on financial stability, and it is possible that Perry sought to protect his assets from loss, either by his own actions or potential creditors and legal issues related to his addiction. You can do the same for a friend or relative if you want to support them and also know they struggle to manage their finances responsibly. These advantages apply to you, too! You do not need to be wealthy to want a trust. You do not have to be charitable or famous to take advantage of the benefits. You simply need to be educated about the benefits and how they apply to you. Read on and I’ll show you how to book a call with me to get the education you need. I’ve alluded to one more advantage that warrants a full section of discussion: privacy. The Appeal of Privacy Remember when I mentioned above that the court process is public? And I also mentioned that a trust can help you and your family avoid court, and the very public process that it is? If you were wondering, “If it’s true Matthew Perry had a trust, then how come it’s public knowledge that he had $1.5 million in his bank account?”  then kudos! You caught on to something important. Matthew Perry also had a will, and wills go through probate. Any assets that are not placed into a trust must be dealt with via your will and thus, are subject to the court process. Remember how I also said above that court filings must contain your personal and financial information? That’s how we know about Matthew Perry’s bank account. The funds in his bank account were ostensibly not placed into his trust, and so, are subject to the public probate process. If you want, you can go look up the court records and read his will - or any will - for yourself.  His will mentioned that he had a trust, which is also common. What it doesn’t mention is the terms of the trust, who the beneficiaries are, what his other assets are, and who gets what. Our public knowledge is limited to what’s in his will. And if his bank account had been placed into his trust, it would have been kept private, too. In short, assets placed into a trust are kept private, as is your personal and financial information. Assets left out of a trust are public knowledge. So, when you create a trust, it’s crucial that you don’t just draft and sign the document and call it a day. You must take the next step and correctly place your assets into the trust. If you don’t do that, you lose all the benefits the trust offers.  How We Help You Protect What Matters Most As more details about Perry's estate (and sadly, his death) emerge, we may gain a better understanding of his intentions and the legacy he will leave behind. While his untimely passing is a tragic loss, his estate planning offers a fascinating look at the advantages of trusts and how you can also take advantage of them.  At Kaplan Estate Law LLC, we help you create a comprehensive Life & Legacy Plan that may include tools like trusts to protect your assets, maintain your privacy, and ensure your loved ones are cared for—without the headaches of court or the increased chances of conflict. By planning today, you can have peace of mind knowing your wishes will be honored, your family’s future will be safeguarded, and your legacy will be kept private. Click here to schedule a complimentary 15-minute consultation to learn more, or e-mail me with questions!

Unless you’ve created a proper estate plan, when you die many of your assets must first pass through the court process known as probate before those assets can be distributed to your heirs. Like most court proceedings, probate can be time-consuming, costly, and open to the public, and because of this, avoiding probate—and keeping your family out of court—is a central goal of most estate plans. During probate, the court supervises a number of different legal actions, all of which are aimed at finalizing your affairs and settling your estate. Although we’ll discuss them more in-depth below, probate typically consists of the following processes: ● Determining the validity of your will (if you have one). ● Appointing an executor or administrator to manage the probate process and settle your estate. ● Locating and valuing all of your assets. ● Notifying & paying your creditors. ● Filing & paying your taxes. ● Distributing your assets to the appropriate beneficiaries. In most cases, going through all of these steps is a real pain for the people you love. It’s expensive, can take a long time, and be highly inconvenient, and sometimes, even downright messy. By implementing the right estate planning strategies, however, you can help your loved ones avoid probate all together—or at least make the process extremely simple for them. To spare your family from the time, cost, and stress inherent to probate, here in this two-part series, we’ll first explain how the probate process works and what it would entail for your loved ones, and then we’ll outline the different ways you can avoid probate with wise planning. When Probate is Required As mentioned previously, if you fail to put in place a proper estate plan, your assets must go through probate before they can be distributed to your heirs. In general, this includes those individuals who have no estate plan at all, those whose estate plan consists of a will alone, and those who have a will that’s deemed invalid by the court. It’s important to point out that even if you have a will in place, your loved ones will still be required to go through probate upon your death. Therefore, if you want to keep your family out of court and out of conflict when you die, you cannot rely solely on a will, and you’ll need to put in place additional estate planning vehicles, which we will cover in further detail later. If you die without a will, it’s known as dying intestate, and in such cases, probate is still required to pay your debts and distribute your assets. However, since you haven’t expressed how you wish your estate to be divided among your heirs, your assets will be distributed to your closest living relatives based on our state’s intestate succession laws. These laws typically give priority to spouses, children, and parents, followed by siblings and grandparents, and then more distant relatives. If no living heirs can be found, then your assets go to the state. Some states allow estates with a relatively low value to bypass probate and use an abbreviated process to settle the estate. Illinois law allows estates with a total value of less than $100,000 to skip probate. In those cases, beneficiaries can claim the estate’s assets using simpler legal actions, such as by filing an affidavit or other form. Additionally, when an individual’s debts exceed the value of their assets, or a person has no assets at all, probate is often not initiated, and the estate is settled using alternative legal processes. How Probate Works How probate plays out is largely determined by whether or not you had a valid will in place at the time of death. However, even in cases where no will exists, or the will is deemed invalid, the probate process is quite similar. Indeed, once the court appoints someone to oversee the probate process on your behalf, the process unfolds in a nearly identical manner, regardless if you had a will or not. 01 | AUTHENTICATING THE VALIDITY OF YOUR WILL: Following your death, your executor is responsible for filing your will and a Petition with the court, and this initiates the probate process. From there, the court must authenticate your will to ensure it was properly created and executed in accordance with state law, and this usually involves a court hearing. Notice of the hearing must be given to all of the beneficiaries named in your will, along with all potential heirs who would stand to inherit under state law in the absence of a will. This hearing gives these individuals the opportunity to contest the validity of your will in order to prevent the document from being admitted to probate. For example, someone might contest your will on the grounds that it was improperly executed (signed, witnessed, and/or notarized) as required by state law, or someone might claim that you were unduly influenced or coerced to change your will. If such a contest is successful, the court declares your will invalid, which effectively means the document never existed in the first place. 02 | APPOINTING THE EXECUTOR OR ADMINISTRATOR: If you created a will, the court must formally appoint the person you named in your will as your executor before they can legally act on your behalf. If you died without a will, the court will appoint someone—typically your closest living relative—to serve in this role, known as your personal representative or administrator. In some cases, the court might require your executor to post a bond before they can serve. The bond functions as an insurance policy to reimburse the estate in the event the executor makes a serious error during probate that financially damages the estate. 03 | LOCATING & VALUING YOUR ASSETS: Once probate begins, the executor must identify, locate, and take possession of all of your assets, so they can be appraised to determine the total value of your estate. This includes not only those assets listed in your will and other estate planning documents, but also those you may have not included in your estate plan. This is why keeping a regularly updated inventory of your assets is so important. Any assets the executor is unable to locate will end up in our state’s Department of Unclaimed Property. Across the U.S., there is more than $58 billion (yes, that’s billion with a ‘b’) of assets stuck in state Departments of Unclaimed Property. Fortunately, this is easy to prevent when you work with us. We will not only help you create a comprehensive asset inventory, we will make sure this inventory stays updated throughout your lifetime In the case of real estate, although the executor is not expected to actually move into your home or other residence, he or she is required to ensure that your mortgage, homeowners insurance, and property taxes are paid while probate is ongoing. These and all other debts can be paid from your estate. Once all of your assets have been located, the executor must determine their value, which is typically done using financial statements and/or appraisals. From there, the combined value of all of your assets is used to estimate the total value of your estate. 04 | NOTIFYING & PAYING YOUR CREDITORS: To ensure all of your outstanding debts are paid before your assets are distributed, the executor must notify all of your creditors of your death. In most states, any unknown creditors can be notified by publishing a death notice with your local newspaper. Creditors typically have a limited period of time—six months in Illinois—after being notified to make claims against your estate. The executor can challenge any creditor claims he or she considers invalid, and in turn, the creditor can petition the court to rule on whether the claim must be paid. From there, valid creditor claims are then paid. The executor will use your estate funds to pay all of your final bills, including any outstanding medical and funeral expenses. 05 | FILING & PAYING YOUR TAXES: In addition to paying all of your outstanding private debts, the executor is also responsible for filing and paying any outstanding taxes you owe to the government at the time of death. This includes personal income and capital-gains taxes, as well as state and federal estate taxes, if your estate is valuable enough to qualify. In Illinois, the estate tax exemption is currently set at $4 million. For those who exceed that threshold, there are several strategies you can use to reduce the size of your estate to avoid these taxes, if you plan ahead of time. Any taxes due are paid from estate funds. In some cases, this may require liquidating assets to raise the needed cash. At Kaplan Estate Law LLC, we will not only support you during your lifetime to implement tax-saving strategies to minimize your tax bill, but we will also work with your loved ones following your death in the same capacity to ensure the wealth and legacy you’ve built provides the maximum benefit to those you leave behind. 06 | DISTRIBUTION OF YOUR REMAINING ASSETS: Once the court confirms all of your debts and taxes have been paid—which typically requires the executor to file an accounting of all transactions he or she engaged in during the probate process—the executor can petition the court for authorization to distribute the remaining assets in your estate to the beneficiaries named in your will, or according to state intestate succession laws, if you didn’t have a will. Once all assets have been distributed, the executor must file a petition with the court to close probate. If all creditors and taxes have been paid, your assets have been distributed, and there are no other outstanding issues to be addressed, the court will issue an order formally closing the estate and terminating the executor’s appointment. Keep Your Family Out of Court and Out of Conflict As your attorney, one of our primary goals when creating your estate plan is to keep your family out of court and out of conflict no matter what happens to you. Yet, as you can see, if your family has to go through probate, your estate plan falls woefully short of that goal, leaving those you love most stuck in an unnecessary, expensive, time-consuming, and public court process. Fortunately, it’s easy for you to spare your family the burden of probate with proactive planning. Next week, we’ll look at the ways you can do just that in the second part of this series. Until then, if you haven’t put an estate plan in place or have one that would force your family to go through probate, contact us to schedule an initial consult. Next week, in part two, we’ll discuss the estate planning strategies that you can use to avoid the need for your loved ones to go through probate.

As a parent, you have probably thought about the importance of naming permanent legal guardians for your child in case something happens to you, and maybe you have already done it. If you haven’t yet, take this as the sign that now’s the time to do it, in case the unthinkable happens to you. But in some cases, naming permanent legal guardians for your child may not be enough to guarantee your kids will always be cared for in the way you want by the people you want. And, there may even be a risk of your kids being taken into the care of strangers or someone you would never want. Read on to find out if that’s the case for your family, and if it is, contact us ASAP to get your Kids Protection Plan in place. You Leave Your Kids With Non-Related Caregivers If you ever leave your minor kids with a caregiver who isn’t a grandparent, aunt, uncle, or other family member that the authorities would naturally leave your kids with if something happens to you, this is what could happen. Your kids are home with the babysitter. You don’t make it home, and the authorities are called. The authorities show up at your house, and what would they do? Would they leave your children at home with the person taking care of them while they attempt to find your Will or legal guardian nomination? Would they even be able to find your legal documents? Would your legal documents name someone who would be immediately available to come to stay with your children, and would the authorities leave your children with those people without a court order? If not, you need a Kids Protection Plan to fill in the gap. Permanent guardian nominations only take effect upon your passing and are made official through the court system. This means that they do not give any legal authority to your chosen guardians in an emergency or if you become incapacitated. Because of this, law enforcement could place your child into protective custody with social services in the event of your sudden absence or incapacity due to an illness or injury. To minimize the chances that would happen, we can name legal guardians for the short-term, and give those named guardians the legal documentation they would need and instructions on what to do immediately if something happens to you. In addition, we will give you the tools to ensure that anyone staying with your children while you aren’t there knows exactly what to do if something happens to you. You Have Someone In Your Life You Would NEVER Want Raising Your Kids While this may not apply to you, if it does, you absolutely, 100%, without question need to contact us for a Kids Protection Plan STAT. If you have anyone in your life you would never want raising your kids if you aren’t able to due to illness or injury, we can ensure that person is confidentially excluded from your plan using a Kids Protection Plan. And, we can structure it so that this confidential document is only brought forward if necessary to keep your children out of the care of the person you would never want to raise them. You Have Unique Desires For Your Kids’ Education, Health Care or Financial Well-Being You’ve probably given a lot of thought to how you want to educate your children, the kinds of healthcare decisions you make for them, and how you want them to experience reality from a financial perspective. If that’s the case, then you absolutely want to ensure that anyone raising your children, if you can’t, will know how you would have wanted these decisions to be made. Otherwise, if you don’t take the time to leave instructions to the people who could raise your children, they will not know how you would make decisions if you cannot be there to communicate your hopes, dreams, wishes, and desires. And, here’s the great thing about this … there’s a strong chance that you are not going to become incapacitated or die while your children are minors (phew), and yet taking the time to write down your unique desires for their well-being and care is an illuminating process in and of itself that will make you a better parent right now. We hear it again and again from our clients that when they create their Kids Protection Plan with us, they immediately feel a great deal of relief and a belief that they are being the best parents they can possibly be. They have more clarity about what’s really important to them, what they want to emphasize, who they want their children to develop relationships with, and where they can better focus their own time, energy, and attention. If you aren’t sure where to start when creating these instructions, don’t worry. We will support you with the whole process when we create your Kids Protection Plan. Comprehensive Protection for The Ones You Love Most Nominating permanent legal guardians is an essential piece of your estate plan, but in reality, it often isn’t enough to ensure your child remains in the care of people you choose, know, love, and trust if something happens to you. If your children are ever left with a relative, or if there is anyone in your life you wouldn’t want raising your kids, or if you have unique high-value wishes for the way your children are raised when it comes to their education, health, or financial well-being, you need a full-fledged Kids Protection Plan. If you’re ready to create a Kids Protection Plan for your child, the first step is to schedule your Life and Legacy Planning Session . During the Session, I’ll look at everything you own and everyone you love to get to know your family and your wishes on a personal level. Then I’ll explain how the law would affect your family if something happened to you today, and together, we’ll design a plan that will protect your assets and your loved ones, no matter what. To get started, click here and schedule a complimentary 15-minute call or e-mail lauren@kaplanestatelaw.com.

Have you jumped on the AI bandwagon yet? If so, you’ve probably used it to make your life easier. AI can be incredibly helpful, especially when the stakes are low. Need a personalized meal plan or an exercise routine? AI can handle that. But when it comes to estate planning, some people use AI for what they believe to be a simple and cost-effective solution.  The allure of Do-It-Yourself estate planning through AI is strong, especially when you think your situation is simple and straightforward. You may also think you don’t have much money, and so your circumstances aren’t complicated. Both of these beliefs are extremely common - and rarely true. Here’s the truth: estate planning is not just about creating a set of documents, and it’s almost always more complicated than you think . To do it effectively, it must be personalized to fit you, your family dynamics, and the specific types of assets you have. But unless you’re an expert, you don’t know how your personal circumstances apply to the law and your values - or how your estate plan should be structured to fit the law and your values. AI cannot do any of this. And if you get it wrong, there are legal (as well as financial) consequences. You need a human to guide you; a human who understands you, your family, your assets, your wishes and desires, and how all these things work together with current law.  So before you’re tempted to use AI for your estate plan, ask yourself the following three questions. Then consider your answers before turning to AI or any other free or cheap legal service. If you’ve already done your estate plan, these questions are important for you, too.  Question No. 1: What Matters? First and foremost, who or what matters most to you? When you’re creating a legal plan for what happens if you become incapacitated and when you die, the place to start is by getting clear on what matters. Is it the money you’ve worked hard to earn, or is it the people around you and the relationships you’ve nurtured? Most likely, it’s the people.  Think about this. How are you affected when a loved one passes away? You’re probably filled with grief, and their absence leaves a void in your life. While their money can ease financial strain, it’s the memories and the love you shared that truly matter (this is their “legacy”). Your loved ones will feel the same way after you’re gone. What will your legacy be?  Imagine that your family is left to deal with a big legal and financial mess after you're gone, all because you didn’t create an estate plan or created one that failed. Are you ok with that being your legacy? Does it matter to you that people will need to spend time away from work and their lives to manage your  affairs? And what if they ended up fighting or estranged? Does that matter to you?  What about your assets? Does it matter to you if your estate has to pay unnecessary taxes, or that your assets get lost and turned over to your State’s Department of Unclaimed Property? Or do you care about supporting a cause you believe in, or supporting a family member who needs help?  When you create a Life & Legacy Plan with our office, you gain the power to influence these outcomes in a way that AI cannot do. But first get clear on what truly matters to you. Question No. 2: What’s It Worth? Once you’re clear on what matters, the next question is: what are those things worth? How important is it to ensure your family’s relationships are preserved, for example? How important is it that your assets don’t get used to pay taxes when there’s an option to give them to your loved ones? It’s critical to know not only what’s important, but how  important it is, so you know how much time, energy, attention, and money to dedicate to it.  One of the main reasons people may use AI to draft their estate plans is that they think estate planning is simple. However, estate planning is much more complex than most people realize. Even licensed attorneys who practice estate planning often find themselves overwhelmed by the intricacies of the law, which changes regularly and varies from state to state. AI is a one-size-fits-all approach that doesn’t take into account the complexities. So if you rely on AI, you’re leaving a lot to chance. Is it worth it to you to take a chance on what matters? There is no wrong answer here; it may be yes or it may be no. The key is that you’re being true to yourself. Question No. 3: Is AI Actually Cheaper and Easier? And now we’re at the third and final question: is AI or Do-It-Yourself legal really cheaper and easier than working with an expert? If the program makes a mistake in your estate plan and your family ends up in court, embroiled in conflict, with relationships irreparably broken, was it worth the supposed savings? What if your assets were lost to the government, eaten up by unnecessary taxes, or depleted by lawyers’ fees and court costs due to litigation?  When you weigh the potential costs—financial, emotional, and relational—against the upfront savings you might achieve by using AI, the true worth of those things that matter to you becomes clearer. You see that estate planning is about much more than just money; it’s about protecting the people you love and ensuring your legacy is honored as you intend.  You and Your Family Deserve More Than a Quick and Cheap Fix The way to ensure that your plan works when you and your loved ones need it to, and saves you and your family money, is by working with my office to create a Life & Legacy Plan. With my Life & Legacy Planning process, I’ll guide you to get clear on what matters, then together we’ll create a complete plan that honors your wishes and creates a loving legacy at a price that fits your budget. When it comes to something as important as your estate plan, it’s worth taking the time to do it right. Your legacy deserves more than a quick fix—it deserves the thoughtful attention of someone who understands your unique situation and can help you navigate the complexities of the law to achieve your goals. We understand that estate planning isn’t just about the documents you sign or the money you leave behind. It’s about ensuring that the people and things that matter most to you are protected and honored in the way you intend. Once you’ve created your plan, you can rest easy knowing your wishes will be honored, your loved ones cared for, and your legacy preserved.  Click here to schedule a complimentary 15-minute consultation to learn more or e-mail lauren@kaplanestatelaw.com .

As summer comes to a close, and back-to-school excitement fills the air, there is one crucial task that is often overlooked: designating legal guardians for your minor children. Legal guardians are the individuals you entrust with the care of your children if, for any reason, you are unable to do so yourself. In the hustle of back-to-school shopping and end-of-season summer fun, it might seem like naming legal guardians for your kids is a low priority, but nothing could be farther from the truth. As kids return to school, they’ll spend most of their day in the care of other people - their teachers, coaches, and babysitters. That means that your children will spend most of their time with people who do not have any legal authority to take care of them for more than a brief time in the event you are in an accident or can’t be reached for any reason. And, if your kids are going off to college, you’ll no longer be able to make decisions for them or have access to their medical records in an emergency unless your adult kids create Powers of Attorney and Health Care Directives. Don’t Rely on Informal Agreements They say it takes a village to raise a child, and as parents, you usually have a network of friends or family you feel you can rely on to step in and care for your child if needed. But it's essential not to rely solely on informal arrangements with relatives or friends to care for your kids if you can’t. Whether you are unconscious in the hospital or have passed away, there’s a chance your child could be taken into protective custody by social services until you recover or until a permanent arrangement can be made. But here’s the thing, the person who ends up taking your child may not be someone your child knows or loves, but a complete stranger in the foster care system. Or, maybe even worse, that person could be someone you never want to raise your kids but who is appointed anyway by a well-meaning court system that doesn’t know what you would want or how you would want your children to be raised. In addition, if you don’t name legal guardians for your kids you risk creating conflict among family members who want to care for your children and may subject your loved ones to a lengthy and costly court process—an unnecessary burden that can easily be avoided. You know your child and your family better than anyone else, and you know who would be the best fit for raising your child if something happened to you. But unfortunately, unless you document your choice of guardian in advance, the decision of who would raise your child if you can’t is ultimately left to a judge who doesn’t know you or your family dynamics. Instead, naming short-term and long-term guardians for your kids ensures they are always cared for by people you know and trust. And, if your kids are off at college, you cannot rely on the fact that you know they’d want you to have access to their medical records and financial accounts if something happened to them. The hospital or banks need official legal documents for you to get access if needed. That’s why we provide all of our client families with young adult planning documents for kids away at college. Comprehensive Protection for Your Child To make sure your kids are always protected and cared for by people you trust, it’s essential to create a comprehensive Kids Protection Plan. Every Kids Protection Plan enables you to name short-term temporary guardians who have immediate authority to care for your children in an emergency and long-term permanent guardians who can raise your children if you are no longer able. My Kids Protection Plan also equips you with emergency ID cards that contain instructions for first responders to contact your child’s guardian if you’re in an accident so they can travel to be with your child right away. Plus, all caregivers, like babysitters and nannies, are provided with precise instructions on how to reach your short and long-term guardians, and that everyone involved in your plan has the necessary legal documents on hand to ensure a smooth process if the need for a guardian arises. In this way, not only have you legally named guardians for your kids, but you’ve created an entire safety plan to ensure they are always cared for in the way you’d want in any situation. And for your college-bound kids, it means having young adult planning documents in place like Powers of Attorney and Health Care Directives that allow you to access your kids’ accounts or make medical decisions for them if they become incapacitated by an illness or injury. A Thoughtful Approach for Your Peace of Mind At Kaplan Estate Law LLC, we are dedicated to securing the well-being of your children under all circumstances. As the back-to-school season approaches, don't overlook this essential homework for parents - naming legal guardians and creating your own Kids Protection Plan. The first step is to go through our unique planning process to choose the right plan for you, your kids and everyone you love. We begin with a Family Wealth Planning Session. During the Session, I get to know your family on a personal level to understand your family dynamics and your assets. I’ll share the law with you, and together we’ll look at exactly what would happen to your assets and your loved ones if something happened to you right now. From there, we choose the right plan for you - at the right budget and that achieves your personal objectives - based on the specifics of your family situation. This ensures your kids and family are cared for and protected no matter what happens, so you can embrace the excitement of this new academic year with peace of mind. To learn more and get started with your own Life and Legacy Planning Session, click here schedule a complimentary discovery call or e-mail lauren@kaplanestatelaw.com.

Including a Trust as part of your estate plan is a smart decision. It allows you to avoid probate, maintain privacy, and distribute your assets to your loved ones while also providing them with a lifetime of asset protection, if you choose it for them. But, here’s the thing you might not know, and is critically important to remember: simply creating a Trust is not enough. For your Trust to work, it has to be funded properly and may need to be updated over time. Funding your Trust means transferring ownership of your assets from your own name into the name of your Trust. This can include bank accounts, investments, real estate, and other valuable possessions. By funding your trust properly, you ensure your assets are managed according to the terms of your Trust and will be distributed according to your wishes when you die or if you become incapacitated. But, if you fail to fund your Trust, it becomes nothing more than an empty vessel. Your assets will not be protected or distributed as intended, at least partially defeating the purpose of creating a Trust in the first place! While your assets can still get into your trust and be governed by your Trust after your death, that means that your family still goes to court to get your assets there, and that is a costly endeavor. To make sure your Trust works for you, avoid these funding fiascos and work with an attorney who will ensure that everything that needs to get into your Trust does. Forgetting to Update Your Account Beneficiaries Many people mistakenly believe that a Will or Trust alone is enough to dictate how their financial accounts should be distributed after they die. However, this isn’t the case. Without proper beneficiary designations on your accounts, your wishes may not be honored and your assets could end up in the wrong hands. Remember, the beneficiaries you designate on your accounts supersede any instructions in your Will or Trust, so this step is vitally important. Take a moment to review your various accounts, such as bank accounts, retirement plans, and life insurance policies. Ensure that each account has your Trust named as your designated beneficiary, unless you’ve made different plans for that specific account. When you are working with a lawyer, make sure your lawyer has a plan for each one of your beneficiary-designated assets, communicates that plan to you, and that the two of you decide who will handle updating your beneficiary designations. Then, make sure you review your beneficiary designations annually. In our office, we support our clients to do all of this with well-documented asset inventories, and a regular review process built into all of our plans. Your Attorney Didn’t Move Your Home Into Your Trust For many of us, our home is our most important and valuable asset. But if your attorney doesn’t deed your home into your Trust, your home won’t be included under the terms of your Trust if you become incapacitated or pass away. That means your home could end up going through the long and expensive probate court process in order to be managed during an illness or passed on to your loved ones after you die. If you own a $300,000 home, that means your family could lose up to $15,000 or more just to transfer your home to your trust and then distribute your home pursuant to the terms of the trust - and that’s not including any other assets that would have to go through probate. A knowledgeable estate planning attorney shouldn’t miss this step, but it happens. And if you’re using a DIY service online to create a Trust without the help of any attorney at all, it’s bound to happen! That’s why it’s so important to work with a lawyer who takes the time to make sure every asset you own is in your Trust before they say their farewells. Not Reviewing Your Plan and Accounts Every Three Years You might wonder how not reviewing your estate plan every few years could really make your plan worthless . Well, the good news is that failing to review your plan is unlikely to completely eliminate the benefits it provides you because an estate plan is made up of a number of moving parts, not just a Will or a Trust. But , failing to keep your financial assets up to date and aligned with your estate plan can result in huge issues for you and your family and can even make the Trust you invested in worth little more than the paper it’s printed on! That’s because your Trust can’t control any assets that don’t have the Trust listed as the owner or beneficiary. By reviewing your accounts every 3 years, you can help catch any accounts that don’t have your Trust listed in this way. For example, it’s very common for clients to open a new bank account and forget to open the account in the name of their Trust or add their Trust as a beneficiary. Thankfully, by comparing my clients' financial accounts to their estate plan at least every 3 years, I’m able to catch simple oversights like this that could cause their assets to be completely left out of their Trust. Make Sure All of Your Assets Are Included In Your Plan with Our Help Getting your legal documents in place is an important step, but it's equally important to know that the documents themselves are not magic solutions. Merely creating a Trust or naming beneficiaries on your accounts does not guarantee that your wishes will be carried out unless all of the pieces of your plan are coordinated to work together. If you aren’t experienced in the area of estate planning, trying to coordinate all these pieces yourself can be a recipe for disaster. That’s why I work closely with my clients to not only create documents but to create a comprehensive plan that accounts for all of your assets and how each one needs to be titled to make sure your plan works for you the way you intended. Plus, I offer my clients a free review of their plans and financial accounts every three years to ensure that their plans accurately reflect their lives and their wishes for their assets and loved ones. If you want to know more about my process for funding your Trust and making sure nothing is ever left out of your plan, click here to schedule a free 15-minute discovery call. As always, feel free to reach out to us at lauren@kaplanestatelaw.com or (312) 833-2199 if you have any questions.

When you think of estate planning, a Will is usually the first thing that comes to mind. In fact, most people who contact me tell me they don’t need anything complicated for their estate- just a Will. Indeed, Wills have a reputation as the number one estate planning tool and can be seen all over TV shows and movies, from the dramatic “reading of the Will” (which rarely happens in real life) to characters plotting how best to defraud their billionaire uncle’s Will in order to inherit his lavish estate. Although Wills are a key part of your estate plan - and a big part of the movies - relying on a Will alone won’t solve your estate planning needs - no matter what Hollywood says. Instead, using just a Will to plan your final wishes is likely to leave your loved ones with an expensive mess that won’t distribute your assets in the way you intended. What’s more, a Will alone won’t ensure that you’re taken care of in the event of incapacity, and contrary to what you might think, relying on only a Will actually guarantees that your family will need to go to court when you die. If you don’t want to leave your family with a mess if something happens to you, it's important to know how a Will works and when it can be used to benefit you and your family. What Exactly Is a Will and How Does it Work? A Will is a written document that directs how the creator of the will wants their possessions disposed of after their death. The creator of the Will is called the testator or testatrix . In your Will you can name someone you trust to manage the distribution of your assets, called your personal representative or executor . You can also write out what you want to have happen to your property, what charitable gifts you want to make, and who will receive them. A Will can be a complex document or a very simple document. You can even write your Will on a napkin if you really want to! With that said, a Will isn’t a legally binding document unless it’s executed according to the laws of the state where you reside. In general, you need to sign your will in front of two witnesses, and sometimes a notary. Some states have laws that allow you to create a Will that isn’t witnessed at all so long as it is handwritten by the testator themselves. But because every state has different laws for the creation of a Will, it’s important to consult with an experienced estate planning attorney (like me) to create your Will rather than trying to write your own. A Will Requires Probate Court One of the biggest estate planning myths I hear from clients is the belief that by having a Will, their loved ones won’t need to go to court after they die. This is sadly the opposite of the truth. If you use only a Will as your main method of estate planning, you are actually guaranteeing that your loved ones will go to court after you die because a Will is required by law to go through the court system called probate before any of your assets can be distributed. In fact, a will is only effective within the probate court. Once your Will is admitted to the court after your death, your personal representative or executor will be given official authority to move your assets under the court’s supervision. This ensures your property is distributed according to your wishes and that the court can intervene if there are any disputes over who gets what. While court oversight can be helpful if there is any confusion or disagreement about your estate, the probate process is long and expensive. For very small estates the process may take about 8-10 months, but for most estates, the process can take 12 - 18 months or sometimes even more. Due to the length and complexity of the process, going through probate can easily cost your family tens of thousands of dollars. Some states even require that probate cost a certain percentage of your estate’s value. In addition, because probate is a public court proceeding, your Will becomes part of the public record upon your death, allowing everyone to see the contents of your estate, who your beneficiaries are, and what they’ll receive. Unfortunately, it’s not uncommon for scammers to use this information to try to take advantage of young or vulnerable beneficiaries who just inherited money from you. A Will Does Not Apply to All of Your Assets or All of Your Needs Although movies make it seem like you can and should leave all your property to your loved ones through your Will, a Will actually only covers certain items of your property, including any property owned solely in your name and any property that doesn’t have a beneficiary designation. A Will does not cover property co-owned by you with others listed as joint tenants or owned as marital property, meaning you can only give away your share of any property you own with others, not the entire property. Any assets that have a beneficiary designation, like retirement accounts or life insurance, are not controlled by your Will at all but will instead be paid out to the person listed as your beneficiary on each account. Because of this, it’s especially important to make sure your account beneficiaries are up to date. In addition, a Will has no power until you die, so you can’t use it to give someone you trust the power to make decisions for you if you’re incapacitated due to illness or injury. Even if you named someone in your Will to manage your estate or watch over your children, that person will have no authority to do so while you’re alive. Don’t Just Get a Will, Get an Estate Plan With all the issues that using a Will for estate planning can create, you might be wondering why a Will is even used at all. The thing is, a Will isn’t the one-and-done solution that most people are led to believe by TV shows and even some lawyers. Instead, a Will should be used as a piece of your overall estate plan, not as the entire plan itself. And ideally, your Will shouldn’t even need to be used at all. How can that be? Well, an estate plan isn’t just one or two documents - it’s a range of tools and coordinated planning that makes sure everything and everyone you love is taken care of. And by using better tools like a Trust instead of a Will as your main tool for estate planning, you can direct what happens to your property while avoiding probate court entirely and ensuring the people you trust can step in and manage your assets immediately if you become incapacitated because of an illness or injury. In addition, any assets you put in the name of your Trust are entirely private, meaning the court and the public will never know what you own or who will inherit it after you’re gone. When using a Trust-based estate plan, you’ll still have a Will, but your Will should only need to serve as a backup and safety net to make sure that any assets that are accidentally left out of your Trust at your death are added back into your Trust. And, even more important than both a Will and a Trust, is an inventory of your assets so your family knows what you have, where it is, and how to find it when you become incapacitated or die. Without an inventory of your assets, your family will be literally lost when something happens to you. A comprehensive inventory updated throughout your lifetime is a critical, and often overlooked, piece of an estate plan that is not “just a Will”. If you’re ready to see how having an estate plan for your family is different than having “just a Will,” schedule your Life and Legacy Planning Session today. During the session, we’ll review an inventory of everything you have and everyone you love, and together look at what would happen to your possessions and loved ones when something does happen. Then, I’ll help you develop a plan to make sure your loved ones are taken care of when you can’t be there and that your plan works for you, and for them, exactly as you want it - at your budget and within your desires. Most importantly, I don’t just create documents - I guide you and your family through every step of the process, now and at the time of your passing. I even help all of my clients pass on something more valuable than their money - their values, stories, and wisdom - through a Family Legacy Interview. To get clear on what you really do need for yourself and the people you love, click this link to schedule a complimentary Initial Consult. Or, feel free to e-mail us with questions at lauren@kaplanestatelaw.com .

Imagine this: You're in your twenties, just starting your career. You fill out a form at work, naming your live-in significant other as the beneficiary of your retirement account. You start contributing to your retirement account, and it begins to grow. Fast forward 28 years - you've long since ended that relationship, lived your life, and then died. But you never changed that beneficiary designation, and now that ex-partner is entitled to your million-dollar retirement nest egg while your family is left with nothing.  Sound far-fetched? It's not. This is precisely what happened in a high-profile lawsuit  involving Margaret Losinger and her former boyfriend, Jeffrey Rolison, and his estate and Proctor and Gamble, the Company he worked for during those 28 years. Here’s a closer look at this shocking real-life story, the lessons we can learn, and how having a trusted advisor at every stage of life can protect you from making a million-dollar mistake like this or any other mistakes that you just might be overlooking.  What Happened? In the 1980s, Jeffrey Rolison dated Margaret Sjostedt, and the two lived together. Rolison worked at a Procter & Gamble (P&G) plant, where he signed up for a profit-sharing and savings plan. In 1987, he listed Sjostedt as the sole beneficiary of his retirement account. The relationship ended two years later, and both moved on. Sjostedt eventually married, taking on the last name Losinger.  Rolison, however, never updated his beneficiary designation on his retirement plan. In 2015, Rolison passed away at age 59, single and childless, with no will and no guidance on who should inherit his assets. His retirement account, which had grown to $1.15 million, was still designated to Losinger, nee Sjostedt. Rolison’s brothers, Brian and Richard, were shocked when they learned that Losinger was the beneficiary of Rolison’s retirement account. They believed their brother wouldn't have intended for his long-ago ex-girlfriend to receive his retirement savings. The brothers filed a lawsuit against P&G and Losinger in 2017, trying to get the money directed to Rolison’s estate.  On April 29, 2024, an appeals court issued an order, ruling that Losinger was entitled to the money. After fighting for four years, Rolison’s family lost their claim, the million dollars in Rolison’s retirement account, and all the legal fees and court costs invested in the fight. Because we have no doubt you wouldn’t want this to happen to your family, read on …  Why Even “Simple Estates” Require Trusted Guidance Before we go on, I’ll clarify what estate planning is, how beneficiary accounts factor in and why you likely need the guidance of a trusted advisor, even if you think you don’t have an estate, your estate is “simple” or you don’t really need an estate plan.  What estate planning is. Many people consider estate planning something only needed by the wealthy or the elderly. As you can see from this case, that’s just not true. Rolison wasn’t wealthy when he chose to name Losinger as the beneficiary of his retirement account. And he probably wasn’t wealthy when they broke up. Nevertheless, not having an estate plan or the trusted guidance he would have needed to know what he needed, he ended up making his ex-girlfriend a wealthy woman and cost his siblings quite a lot of time and money in the process. At the most basic level, estate planning is about ensuring all of your assets pass to the people you want, in the way you want, with the right guidance and support to ensure that happens with the least effort, cost and mess possible. And, it’s about ensuring that if you become incapacitated, your wishes are known, honored and able to be followed with the least amount of cost and most amount of privacy possible.  Most importantly, estate planning is about your choices and your freedom.  So, how important is it to you that you have a say in what happens to you, your hard-earned assets, and your loved ones when the time comes? If it’s important, you need an estate plan. It’s truly as simple as that. Otherwise, the government gets to decide on your behalf. When you create an estate plan, your wishes override the government’s plan for you and your loved ones.  How Beneficiary-Designated Accounts Factor Into Your Estate Plan Beneficiary-designated accounts - like retirement accounts or life insurance - are part of your estate plan.  Beneficiary designations override the government’s plan for you, and they also override whatever you might have written in your will or trust, if you created one.  From the case I shared here, we learn that Rolison did not have a will, but it would not have made a difference even if he had. Beneficiary designations come before any will or trust, even if you made the designations years ago.  Beneficiary forms are powerful documents. They alone determine who gets your retirement accounts, life insurance policies, and bank accounts, often taking precedence over your will. If you filled out a beneficiary form years ago and haven't updated it, the person named on that form will likely receive the assets, regardless of your current wishes. So the biggest takeaway from the Rolison/Losinger story is that beneficiary accounts are an integral part of your estate plan and should be reviewed on a regular basis. This is why we include a review of all of your accounts, your beneficiary designations and an inventory of all of your assets - plus we have updating programs for ongoing review - in all of our Life & Legacy Plans. Why You Need Regular Reviews of Your Accounts and Beneficiary Designations Rolison’s case highlights the fact that it’s easy to forget about your beneficiary designations, especially if they were filled out years ago. However, the case also tells us that neglecting to update your accounts can lead to unintended consequences and legal battles for your loved ones.  In Rolison’s case, his brothers argued that P&G failed to adequately inform him about his beneficiary designation. They claimed the company provided insufficient warnings when it changed service providers and in its monthly statements. However, most companies do not remind you to review and update your beneficiary accounts. When was the last time your bank reminded you to review the beneficiary designations on your checking account (if ever)? What about your life insurance company? And if not, have you taken it upon yourself to check your beneficiary designations regularly? Your life is busy enough. Is this a priority?  If not, it should be. In its decision, the court stated that it ruled in favor of P&G and Losinger because the responsibility for keeping beneficiary information current rests on the individual.  How Accountability Makes All the Difference Your life is busy. Sometimes, just making it through the day with all your responsibilities can be a challenge, right? Probably the last thing on your mind is planning for your death and incapacity. And maybe the second-to-last thing is reviewing and updating your beneficiary accounts. You’re probably thinking you can do it later. But the truth is this: “later” could be tomorrow. We all know we will die; we just don’t know when. Death doesn’t care about your age or how busy you are. I’m not saying this to scare you. It’s a fact, and I want you to be prepared so that what happened to the Rolison family won’t happen to yours. Death doesn’t have to be scary. When you plan for it, you’ll find that you can live your life with more purpose and peace of mind, knowing you’ve done the right thing for your loved ones.  If this sounds good to you, know that having a trusted advisor who is there for you throughout your lifetime can make all the difference. I’ll be there for you as life changes so your plan reflects your current wishes. Together, we’ll make sure your family inherits your accounts, not an ex-girlfriend you dated 40 years ago.  We Do the Heavy Lifting So You Don’t Have To  When it comes to planning for your death and incapacity, we do the heavy lifting for you, freeing you to concentrate on your responsibilities to your family, your work, and yourself. As your attorney, we help you create a Life & Legacy Plan so that your loved ones stay out of court and conflict and that your plan works when you need it to. Once you’ve created your plan, you can rest easy knowing your wishes will be honored, your loved ones cared for, your property protected, and your plan updated throughout your lifetime.  And if you’ve already created your Life & Legacy Plan with us, keep an eye out for our reminders to review and update your plan. If you know now that you need to update your plan due to a life change, don’t hesitate to call us right away. Click here to schedule a complimentary 15-minute consultation to learn more.

For the last few weeks, we’ve discussed celebrities and how they planned for their deaths. We started with the King of Pop, Michael Jackson, so ending our 4-part series with the King of Rock, Elvis Presley, seems fitting.  You may be wondering why I’ve chosen to talk about a man who’s been dead since 1977. The reason is that a recent case involving Graceland shows how bold scammers can be. This case is a wake-up call for anyone who owns property or stands to inherit it. So, let’s jump into this bizarre tale to uncover what you can learn about protecting your assets from the unscrupulous actors around you. How It Went Down You might think that a well-known property like Graceland would be untouchable, but that didn't stop a mysterious company from trying to steal it. A group calling itself Naussany Investments and Private Lending claimed that Graceland's owners owed them millions from an old loan. They even set a date to auction the property to the highest bidder. But there was just one problem – the whole thing was a scam. Riley Keough, Elvis's granddaughter and the current owner of Graceland, quickly fought back. She filed a lawsuit, saying her mother, Lisa Marie Presley, never borrowed money from this company or put Graceland up as collateral. The courts agreed, stopping the sale just in time. Keough’s swift action got the attention of the Tennessee Attorney General’s office, which then turned over the case to the FBI, and a federal investigation is pending. Unfortunately, there’s been a rise in these types of scams, and they aren’t just targeted at the rich and famous. Scammers are adept at taking advantage of those of us who have never had a top-10 hit. A Wall Street Journal article published on June 3, 2024, breaks down a typical scenario, which is on point: “Here’s how it works: A fraudster targets your house and assumes your identity, using tactics similar to identity thieves to acquire your personal information and create fake IDs. He or she then tries to sell it to an unsuspecting buyer by executing a forged deed in your name. An alternative scam is to submit a mortgage application in your name to get cash out of the house.” Often, people don’t find out this has happened until the sale is complete and by then, it may be too late to get the property back. Or at least it would be very time-consuming and costly. Some people cannot fight back because they don’t have the financial resources to do so. The results can be utterly heartbreaking. If it can happen to Graceland, it can happen to you. So, how can you spot these scams before they spin out of control? Red Flags You Can’t Ignore When you're dealing with property, loans, and estate planning, keep your eyes peeled for these warning signs: Paperwork problems: In the Graceland case, the documents had all sorts of issues. Dates didn't match up, signatures looked fishy, and the notary said she never met Lisa Marie Presley. Always read the fine print and question anything that looks off. You should also consult with a lawyer immediately if you suspect something fishy. A lawyer can confirm your suspicions and help you take action right away.  Ghost companies: According to the news articles, Naussany Investments was hard to pin down. They had no real address, just P.O. boxes, and weren't registered as a business anywhere. Before you deal with any company, especially for something as important as a loan, do your homework. Look them up online, check with the Better Business Bureau, and don't be afraid to ask probing questions. Timing:  The scammers waited until after Lisa Marie Presley passed away to make their move. Be extra cautious about any claims against a deceased person's estate – fraudsters often target families when they're most vulnerable.  Steps You Can Take to Protect Yourself Know that you can take proactive action to protect yourself and your loved ones, before you notice red flags. Here are some practical steps to ensure your property is protected: Keep good records:  Make sure all your important documents are organized and easy to find. This includes property deeds, mortgage papers, and any loans you've taken out. If someone makes a false claim, you'll have the proof to fight back as quickly as Riley did. Regular review and updates of these documents are crucial. Be skeptical: If something sounds too good to be true, it probably is. Be wary of unsolicited offers or demands, especially if they come with pressure to act quickly.  Stay in the loop: If you're inheriting property or managing it for someone else, know what's going on. Are the taxes paid? Is there a mortgage? The more you know, the harder it is for scammers to pull a fast one. The reason Riley Keough was able to take action quickly enough to stop the sale was because she was paying attention.  You also want to make sure someone else is paying attention to your affairs in case you become incapacitated. In last week’s article , we discussed what can happen if you become incapacitated and you haven’t planned for it. If you missed it, here’s a sneak peek: it took months  for Jay Leno to be able to manage his wife’s financial affairs once she was unable to herself. And as we’ve seen with the Graceland case, months could mean the difference between keeping your property and losing it. If you haven’t planned for your incapacity, book a call with me using the scheduling link below, and let’s talk about how we can get that taken care of for you. And this brings us to the most important thing you can do to protect yourself. Incapacity planning isn’t enough. You need a solid and thorough Life & Legacy Plan. A Solid Estate Plan is the Key Having a solid estate plan creates a legal framework that's much harder for fraudsters to penetrate. The type of planning I do, called Life & Legacy Planning, is solid and thorough. It covers all possible scenarios so you and your family are prepared for anything that can happen after your death or during your incapacity. It includes an inventory of all your properties and other assets, so you know exactly what you have, and your loved ones will also know if they need to step in and help. A Life & Legacy Plan also includes regular reviews and updates so your plan stays current with changing laws and circumstances, closing potential loopholes that scammers might exploit.  Finally, we can help you ensure your loved ones know about these risks and are familiar with your estate plan. As we’ve learned from Elvis’s estate, the more eyes watching out for fraud, the better. How We Help You Not Fall Victim to a Scam Scams are on the rise and the best time to protect yourself is now. We help you create a Life & Legacy Plan so that your loved ones stay out of court and conflict and have a plan that works when you (and they) need it to. Once you’ve created your plan, you can rest easy knowing your wishes will be honored, your loved ones cared for, and your property protected.  Click here to schedule a complimentary 15-minute consultation to learn more or e-mail lauren@kaplanestatelaw.com .

For the last two weeks, we’ve discussed celebrities and how they planned (or didn’t!) for their deaths. In this third installment of our four-part celebrity series, we discuss a topic that no one wants to think about: incapacity. Unlike death, not everyone will become incapacitated. Yet, it’s an essential part of your future planning because if you do become incapacitated, you want to have made your choices well before that occurs. To illustrate the importance of planning for incapacity, we’ll examine the real-life court case involving Jay Leno and his wife, Mavis. The Leno case highlights what happens when you or a loved one becomes incapacitated and what can happen if you have not planned in advance. From the Leno case, we can learn several lessons, including 1) What incapacity is and what it is not, 2) What a spouse can and can’t do with the other spouse’s financial affairs, and 3) How you can end up in court with all your affairs becoming public knowledge. We’ll address all three topics here, emphasizing why these matter. Let’s start with the basics: what do we mean when we’re talking about “incapacity”? What Incapacity Is and What It’s Not If you become incapacitated, you’ve lost the ability to make sound financial, medical, or legal decisions for yourself. You may even make harmful decisions or be unable to communicate at all. Incapacity can result from several circumstances, including a tragic accident, a serious, end-of-life illness, or aging-related challenges, such as dementia or Alzheimer's. Like death, incapacity can strike at any time and at any age. Once it does, it’s too late to get your affairs in order, and your loved ones will be stuck with a mess.  This may seem obvious, but stay with me: It’s important to note that incapacity occurs while you’re alive. I say this because estate planning, to some degree, has much to do with timing. You can have a plan and create documents that deal with your incapacity. However, that plan and documents become null and void once you die, and another plan and set of documents are needed. Here’s why this matters to you: If you’re like many people, you’ve heard of a document called a Power of Attorney. You may even have authority for an aging relative under a Power of Attorney. In my practice, however, I've found that most people don’t realize that the authority granted under that Power of Attorney ends as soon as the person granting the power dies. So, while you may be able to access your loved one’s checking account to pay bills while they’re alive, that ends immediately at death if your access was under a Power of Attorney. You must then get separate authority - from a court if assets are not held in a trust - to handle the remaining assets after death. This means your incapacity planning and post-death planning must work together so the transition is handled smoothly and with as much ease for your loved ones as possible. And that brings us to the Leno case. So, What Happened In the Leno Family? (And What It Means for You) Mavis Leno, Jay's wife of more than 40 years, is battling dementia and has reached the point where she can no longer handle her financial affairs. So, Jay had to go to court (essentially filing a lawsuit against his own wife) to be able to manage her finances. After a few months, the court ruled and gave Jay the authority he requested. That’s essentially the entire story. But we can’t stop there! Even from just three simple sentences above, several key takeaways exist.  Here are the highlights: Even though they were married, Jay did not have automatic authority to manage Mavis’s finances. And neither will you if you’re married and your spouse has separate assets. Any assets or accounts you own are your property and your property alone. Marital status is irrelevant. And, if you don’t have advance planning in place, your spouse could need to go to court and sue your “estate” to get appointed and be able to take control of your assets.  Leno had to file a lawsuit (against his wife) to gain control of his wife’s finances. That’s the process, no matter what State you’re in. If you don’t have advance planning and you become incapacitated, someone will need to go to court to get authority, even if you have powers of attorney in place. And it will cost time (a few months in most cases) and money. While waiting for the court to rule, you won’t be able to pay your spouse’s bills using their money (or they may spend away, unaware of what they’re doing). That leaves you with two options:  You can pay the bills with your money and then get reimbursed later. This may be fine, especially if you have the financial means. But if you don’t have immediate access to cash, say your spouse paid all the bills from their account, this could mean trouble and potential loss of the asset. Or, bills simply go unpaid. Maybe you can explain the situation to the financial institution, and they will be patient while the court process plays out, but this doesn’t always happen.  The court process is set up for conflict, and the more conflict there is, the longer the process will take. In Leno’s case, he and Mavis have been married for over 40 years, and it’s their first and only marriage (relationship goals, right?). Given this fact, it’s reasonable to assume that no one challenged Jay’s request. But what if one of them had been married before and had children from the prior marriage? And what if one of those children wanted to ensure they got their inheritance and didn’t want the step-parent to have any control over the money? Sadly, this happens all the time. When it does, the case can go on and on, meaning court costs go up, and the assets in question could be at risk due to the time delay.  Leno’s personal and family information became public knowledge, but not because he’s famous. In most States, you must disclose your address, your family members and their addresses, and information about the financial assets. The Leno family's story is available for all of us to read, not because he’s famous, but because they had to go to court.  This can be problematic because scammers are paying attention. They tend to pay particular attention if you (or someone you love) are vulnerable, especially if you’re older. So, what have you gleaned from these insights so far? If anything concerns you, know there is a much better way this could have been handled. And this better way lies within your reach.  A Life & Legacy Plan Keeps Your Affairs Private and Your Family Out of Court and Conflict A Life & Legacy Plan solves the problems that left Jay Leno having to sue his wife’s estate to get access to her accounts. With a Life & Legacy Plan in place, you would have a seamless, easeful transition from capacity to incapacity and then to death. There’s no time delay; assets can be immediately available when you need them. A Life & Legacy Plan can also keep you and your loved ones out of court and conflict, saving time and money and keeping all your affairs private. When you work with me to create your Life & Legacy Plan, we’ll ensure your plan stays updated throughout your lifetime. This is critically important because if your estate plan doesn’t reflect your current life circumstances at the time you need it, then it simply won’t work. That means you end up in court, just like the Leno family. Now, for context, most attorneys do not make sure your plan stays up to date. But I’ve seen too many plans fail because of it, so together, we’ll review your plan at least every three years and make updates as necessary.  We’re Here for You Throughout All Of Life’s Changes Incapacity planning is more crucial than ever, especially with cases of dementia on the rise. According to Alzheimer’s Disease International, over 55 million people worldwide currently have dementia, and that number is expected to increase to 78 million by 2030. Whether you’re diagnosed with dementia, another severe illness, or a terrible accident that results in your incapacity, a Life & Legacy Plan will help ensure you’re prepared, no matter what happens. If you're ready to get started, or have questions about our Life & Legacy Plan, click here to schedule a complimentary initial consult.

This week, we’re continuing to look at the lives of 4 celebrities and how they’re preparing for the inevitable (or didn’t!). Last week , we examined Michael Jackson’s planning and the holes in his plan that resulted in his family being embroiled in court and conflict for 15 years and counting (if you missed it, go back and check it out!). In this second article of our 4-part celebrity series, Vanilla Ice chimes in with his estate planning experience, advice, and lessons learned on a video he posted to his YouTube channel. He has a lot to say! I’ll share some comments users posted with their takeaways, and I’ll pull out a few lessons that we can learn, too. Let’s start with a topic everyone no one likes to talk about: taxes.  Vanilla Ice (Really) Hates Estate Taxes Vanilla Ice shares the story of his buddy Mark, whose parents owned a sprawling property in Palm Beach, Florida. When they passed, Mark and his siblings sold the estate, expecting to be set for life. But estate taxes ended up taking over 80% of their profit. Ouch. Vanilla Ice calls this tax a "generational wealth killer," and he’s not wrong. Estate taxes can sneak up and bite a huge chunk out of your wealth. And the thing is, with a proper estate plan, this doesn’t have to happen! The key is to educate yourself. Knowing what you’re up against helps you plan smarter so that more of your hard-earned assets reach your heirs.  In the comments section of the video, one user wrote that he agrees. He says,  “as a Certified Public Accountant (CPA), I love Rob's recommendation to gain an understanding of taxes. We spend more on taxes than everything else in life.” I agree too! I believe that education is the most important part of estate planning. That’s why my planning process begins with a Life & Legacy Planning Session, where you’ll get the plain and simple education you need to make wise decisions about your planning, including how to keep your family out of court and out of conflict, minimize taxes, and ultimately create a plan that works for you and the people you love, when they need it.  So, first lesson: If you suspect your family could pay estate taxes at the time of your death, don’t wait to plan. There’s way too much at stake. Give us a call, and let’s get you in the know about the kind of planning you want and need for yourself, and the people you love. Let’s talk life insurance next.  Vanilla Ice Thinks Life Insurance is Cool Life insurance isn’t just for covering funeral costs – it’s a secret weapon in estate planning. Vanilla Ice suggests “maxing out your life insurance” to pass on as much money to your kids as you can. What makes life insurance “cool” is that death benefits aren’t subject to income  tax, meaning your heirs can get more bang for your buck than if you were investing the money you’d put into life insurance premiums into just about any other asset class.  It’s worth considering what Vanilla Ice suggests here. When you take out a life insurance policy, the payout can cover any necessary taxes, probate fees, and debts, ensuring your heirs receive the lion's share of your assets. Life insurance can help with short-term needs, like paying off a mortgage, or it can serve your family’s long-term needs, like maintaining the lifestyle to which they’re accustomed. When you get educated via our Life & Legacy Planning process, we’ll look at your life insurance, whether you have the right amount and the right type, and connect you with expert in the field. We’ll consider whether you need more insurance, less insurance, or a different kind of insurance altogether based on your family dynamics, assets, and what you want for the people you love after you are gone. Second lesson: If you want to be cool, make the right type and kind of life insurance part of your planning.  Ice Says Trusts Are Not Just for the Rich and Famous (and He’s Right!) Trusts might sound like something only the super-wealthy need, but they’re a smart tool for anyone looking to protect their assets. One commenter agreed, saying he’s learned this from experience, “It isn’t just millionaires that need planning. I’ve seen families torn apart fighting over $100,000 or less. Siblings not speaking to each other again over $50,000.” Ice mentions irrevocable trusts specifically. These types of trusts let you transfer assets to a beneficiary while removing the assets from your taxable estate, ensuring your assets aren’t subject to estate taxes. Any assets placed in an irrevocable trust are also protected from legal judgments and creditors IF you do it the right way and in the right jurisdiction. Don’t go at this one alone. But if it’s something you are interested in, contact us and let’s talk. In the video, Ice jokes about putting his classic car collection into a trust and setting rules, such as his kids can lease but not sell the cars. This kind of protection ensures your heirs benefit from, but don’t squander, the assets. In other words, even after death, you get to determine how your assets will be used. And if you want to protect them for future generations, you can. This is one way to create generational wealth.  So now we’re up to our third lesson: If you want to protect and preserve your assets for generations, take Vanilla Ice’s advice and utilize trusts in your planning.  Put Vanilla Ice’s Advice Into Action Today Vanilla Ice’s video brings forward lessons everyone can benefit from. By understanding your options, including how taxes and life insurance impact your family and assets specifically, and considering the use of well-counseled trusts, you can safeguard your assets and ensure they benefit your loved ones the way you want. To quote his classic hit, “Ice Ice Baby,” ‘Anything less than the best is a felony.’ Take these lessons from Vanilla Ice to heart, and start building a solid estate plan today. Your future generations will thank you for it.  Click here to schedule a complimentary 15-minute consultation to learn more.